Tips For Female Patients
To Prevent Sexual Misconduct
If you look through medical boards and newspapers
in the United States, you will notice that some male doctors have
been accused of sexual misconduct. There are many underreported
cases because patients are afraid to speak up about the abuse they
experienced because they know that it is very easy for doctors to
get away with wrongdoing. Some doctors that have committed sexual
misconduct have continued to practice.
1.) It is best for a female patient to
never go to a male gynecologist if possible. If you already
have a male gynecologist, you should look at switching to a female
gynecologist. There are so many good female ob/gyns
you could choose from. If your area doesn't have any female ob/gyns,
you should check into having a female Nurse Practitioner or Physician's
Assistant do your women's health examinations. If you do research,
you will notice that some male gynecologists all over the US have
sexually abused patients. You are in a very vulnerable position
when you let a male gynecologist do intimate procedures on you.
Having a nurse or an assistant present in the room with the doctor
doesn't guarantee that nothing inappropriate would happen to you.
Remember that the nurse or assistant is present to "protect"
the doctor and will often be on the doctor's side. There have been
cases where female patients felt the male doctor went too far, but
the nurse or assistant felt he was simply doing thorough examinations.
It is certainly not worth the risk to let a male doctor do intimate
female procedures or examinations. It would also be best for you
to find a female doctor to do a colonoscopy on you if you must have
the procedure done. Some male gastroenterologists have taken advantage
of women while they were under anesthesia for colonoscopy. One female
patient found semen from the doctor on her face after she woke up
from a colonoscopy in a Texas hospital. Check
out a disciplinary action that was taken against another gastroenterologist
that has been accused of sexually assaulted some female patients
by Wisconsin Department of Regulation & Licensing.
2.) Even with female ob/gyns,
you have to take some precautions. It is very rare
for female ob/gyns to commit sexual misconduct, but it is possible.
Some of female doctors are very coercive when it comes to doing
things probably due to the fact that they were taught in a male
dominated medical school. You need to speak up about things you
don't want to be done to you. For example, one female ob/gyn ignored
a lady's wishes in writing that she didn't want any medical students
present for her C-Section. It might be good to have someone who
can help you advocate for what you want. You should ask the female
ob/gyn to tell you in details about what exactly what she will be
doing and if there is anything you don't like, you should speak
up. Find out who all will be present for the procedure.
3.) Don't allow yourself to be
pressured into having a pelvic exam, pap smear, or breast exam at
any doctor appointments. Some female patients have gone to the doctor
for other health concerns and were pressured into having unnecessary
examinations. For instance if you go in for a sore throat and you
think you may have strep throat, don't spend time listening to a
lecture by the doctor about how important it is to have a pap smear
and that you need one today. If something like that happens, tell
the doctor you are not interested and you only want to talk about
the reason you came in (ex: your throat is sore).
4.) Don't undress or put on a
medical gown when it is unnecessary and/or you feel uncomfortable.
There are so many procedures and tests that doctors can do on you
without you having to change your clothes. For example, there's
no need to change into a medical gown for a strep throat test.
5.) Keep in mind that it is unnecessary
for you to take your shirt off for the doctor to listen to your
heart. You should wear a thin shirt and not a sweatshirt. It is
strange, but many doctors don't even ask men to take their shirts
off to listen to their hearts, but they ask women to. That tells
you something is wrong.
6.) You should think in advance
about what parts of your body the doctor should examine and dress
accordingly. For instance if you have a knee problem that you want
the doctor to check out, you should put shorts instead of pants
on so you would not have to take any of your clothes off in the
doctor's office.
7.) Don't listen to recommendations from family
members or friends about male gynecologists who may be good. Many
people thought that the male gynecologists who have sexually abused
patients were wonderful doctors who would never do anything inappropriate.
Find yourself a female gynecologist to avoid the risk that you might
be abused by a male doctor. Some women prefer female midwives or
Nurse Practitioners to do their women's wellness exams and that
is a good choice too.
8.) If you are going to be put under anesthesia,
you should insist that you have a family member or a friend present
for your procedure.
9.) Make a firm decision that you will not let
a male doctor touch any parts of your body that are covered by a
two piece bathing suit. This is a good way to prevent you from being
sexually abused by a male doctor.
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